Da’Kari was born at 28 weeks due to unexpected complications, arriving via emergency C-section when his heart rate began to drop. The NICU was an unknown world for me—one I didn’t know how to navigate. On his first day, he was placed on oxygen and feeding tubes. Doctors shared that he had some heart complications and a brain bleed. But within 48 hours, my little fighter no longer needed breathing support.
He was among the first babies to transition from the old Women’s Hospital to the new Women’s and Children’s Center. His journey had its ups and downs, including a terrifying moment when he had to be brought back to life, setting him back on a feeding tube. But Da’Kari’s resilience never wavered. Within a week, he was back to bottle feeding and finally came home after 49 long days.
The support we received made all the difference—from the incredible NICU nurses to the Family Support team, I am truly grateful for every moment of this journey. I would do it all over again.
To other NICU families: lean on the support available to you. Build connections with your nurses, leadership, and Family Support team. Give your baby time and grace. This journey is a roller coaster—some days are harder than others. Take it one day at a time. It is worth it. Be your baby’s advocate. Speak up and ask questions.
With love,
To’Quisha Fuller